10 Things classy women never do.

Hello beautiful! My name is Victoria and I teach women just like you how to become an elegant, classy woman. Today I want to tell you about the 10 things classy women don’t do.

Over the past couple of years I’ve been on the most beautiful elegance journey and I have learned and grown so much as a person.

But recently I learned that there are many things that classy women don’t do, and it sets them apart from other women. 

These things may not seem like a big deal, but there is a noticeable difference in the appearance and behavior of high value women compared to other women.

High value women want to be respected, remembered, valued, and treated with kindness. In order to be treated the way they wish, they act in a way that attracts people who are going to respect them. There are just certain things that classy women don’t do. 

Something to remember:

Elegance is a journey

You don’t transform into the highest version of yourself overnight. Doing any kind of life transformation takes time, patience, and constant daily effort to break habits, reprogram the mind, and create a new version of yourself.

Here are 10 things that scream “I’m low class“

1.Presenting yourself poorly online

Elegance is all about how you carry yourself, even through a screen. It’s 2025. We all have two different lives: Our real life, and our digital life.

Elegant women are careful to carry themselves with grace in real life and online.

Why?

Because everyone is online.

• Your boss
• Your grandmother
• Your dentist

Everyone.

You social media is a direct reflection of you. And trust me, people definitely judge you based on the things you post on your social media. They will draw conclusions about you based on the things you post online. It’s human nature.

Creating an elegant presence on social media is essential because it communicates thoughtfulness, confidence, and intention in a space that often moves fast and feels crowded.

Elegance stands out—not because it shouts, but because it radiates calm clarity and refined style.

An elegant presence invites others into a space of inspiration, beauty, and authenticity—making every post not just a moment, but a meaningful impression.

2.Demonstrate poor social etiquette.

You aren’t socially awkward, you just weren’t taught how to have a magnetic presence.

Poor social etiquette is one of the fastest ways to come across as low class.

Classy women have mastered the art of navigating any room with grace. They know all of the secrets to being unforgettable, and because of that, they sparkle in every room they enter.

While others are leaving unforgettable impressions, you’re still guessing what to say.

You’re missing out on high-value connections just because of small etiquette mistakes—it’s time to glow up your etiquette.

3. Demonstrate bad table manners

“I’m never going to a restaurant with her again”.

That was my thought after going to a dinner with someone I didn’t know. She was a friend of a friend, and everyone was having a good time…until she started going into gruesome detail about her abdominal surgery while we were all eating.

The things she was describing made it extremely difficult to enjoy a meal. This was nearly 7 years ago and I still remember it as the worst dining experience I’ve ever had.

Bad table manners come in many forms, but classy women have learned all the do’s and don’ts of dining with others.

The key to unforgettable dinners? Flawless table manners that radiate confidence and sophistication.

Don’t let bad table manners give you low class energy. Fix it before it’s too late!

4.Wasting free time on low quality hobbies

Binge watching shows all weekend is stopping you from unlocking your true potential.

Many women like to spend their free time doing low quality activities. This includes drinking, binge watching television, mindlessly scrolling on social media and spending time with low quality people.

Once you change the way you spend time, you will start seeing substantial improvements in the quality of your life.

While you’re scrolling, elegant women are mastering new skills and participating in hobbies that feed their soul.

Your dream life is waiting, but it won’t happen if you don’t change the way you spend your free time.

5.Classy women don’t take their reputation lightly.

The biggest glow-down? Not protecting your name, image, or integrity.

💣TRUTH BOMB:

Before you speak, post, or step in the room… your reputation already did.

Women who exhibit low-class behavior often don’t prioritize or protect their reputation for several reasons.

Lack of Self-Awareness – Many women who don’t protect their reputation simply aren’t aware of how their actions, words, and behaviors impact how others perceive them.

Instant Gratification Over Long-Term Impact – Low-class individuals may focus on immediate satisfaction or attention, without considering the long-term consequences of their actions.

Low Self-Esteem – Sometimes, women with lower self-esteem may not value their own worth enough to protect their reputation.

Desire for Attention – Women who crave attention may disregard the impact of their actions on their reputation, instead choosing behaviors that attract attention—regardless of whether that attention is positive or negative.

Here’s why classy women protect their reputation at all costs

• It reflects their character
• Protects their image
• Builds trust
• Creates long term success
• Maintains peace of mind

Your reputation is your power—classy women don’t hand it over so easily

6.Classy women don’t have low standards

One of the reasons women are stuck in a low class lifestyle is because they have low standards.

Low standards can look like staying in toxic relationships, living a low quality lifestyle, letting people treat you poorly, and lack of motivation.

The consequences of low standards is staggering.

If you’re experiencing…

• Tolerating disrespect
• Settling for less
• Attracting the wrong people
• Stress and burnout
• Being taken advantage of
• Living below your potential
• …and so much more

It’s time to raise your standards babe.

Low standards can keep you stuck in cycles of dissatisfaction, missed opportunities, and poor self-worth.

They prevent you from reaching your full potential and enjoying the quality of life you deserve.

On the other hand, raising your standards encourages growth, self-respect, and positive changes across all areas of life, leading to healthier relationships, greater success, and a more fulfilling life.

💖Classy women know their worth, and low standards are NEVER an option.

In fact, one of my favorite quotes of all time is “High Standards protect you from low quality experiences”.

✨ Stop settling and start stepping into your elegant, high-standard era. My elegance course will show you how to do it step by step. Your elevated life is waiting—you just have to say yes. 💫

7.Classy women don’t live life without a plan

Classy Women Aren’t Lucky—They’re Strategic.

Every elegant woman knows that you cannot life life without a plan. A classy woman is going to be planning for her future, not living life in the past.

Here’s what happens when you don’t have goals…

Living in Survival Mode Instead of Thriving
Without clear goals, you fall into the cycle of just “getting by,” instead of actively building a life you love.

Lack of Direction and Purpose
You wake up each day without a clear sense of what you’re working toward. Over time, this leads to boredom, burnout, or a feeling of being lost.

You Accept Whatever Comes Your Way
No goals = no standards. You begin to settle for mediocre relationships, jobs, habits, and routines that don’t align with your highest self.

No Personal Growth or Progress
Goals force you to stretch, evolve, and become better. Without them, it’s easy to stay the same year after year.

Increased Comparison
When you don’t have your own vision, you start watching everyone else’s. This leads to comparison, envy, and insecurity.

Time Wasted on Distractions
Without goals, scrolling, binge-watching, and other low-quality habits can quietly take over your life.

Regret Later in Life
The biggest pain of all: looking back and realizing you never became the woman you were capable of becoming.

Before I had goals for my life, Every single one of those points were true for me. I was stuck in a seemingly never ending loop of unhappiness

Creating goals gave me something to work towards and improved the quality of my life.

Feeling like you are lost in life? Classy women already know their next move. I can teach you how!

8.Classy women don’t wear pajamas in public.

💗Still running errands in sweats? Here’s why that’s quietly ruining your glow-up.

I know for some people think that this is a no brainer, but you would be surprised how many people I see walking around the supermarket in their pajamas.

The truth is, an elegant woman would never wear pajamas or be poorly dressed in public.

Well dressed women are complimented, respected, and remembered.

Many women struggle with clothing because they are unsure of how to put together outfits and they are intimidated because it is becoming increasingly difficult to find clothes that are both affordable and flattering.

Dressing up-even just a little-can change your whole energy.

The truth is, elegant women don’t just dress for the occasion—they dress for the life they’re creating. If you’ve ever felt overlooked, invisible, or just off in your daily style, it’s time to level up.

Because the moment you start dressing with intention, everything shifts—your confidence, your energy, and the way others respond to you. Don’t let another day go by blending in.

In my Elegance Course, you’ll learn how to cultivate a wardrobe (and presence) that turns heads with grace, not noise. Your glow-up starts in your closet—are you ready?